<p><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Even van te voren. Ik weet dat niemand zoiets kan beslissen voor een ander maar ben meer opzoek naar eventueel advies of ervaring.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Wij zijn nu sinds bijna 1 jaar ouders van 3 kindjes. Mijn oudste(4) heeft een andere vader en nu is er afgelopen jaar een tweeling bij gekomen ?.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Heel leuk maar ook echt heftig 2 kindjes tegelijk. Nu voel ik me alsof ik nog niet klaar ben om er een punt achter te zetten. Ik zou eventueel graag nog een nummer 4 willen.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Maar hoe besluit je zoiets of hoe pak je dit aan. De oudste gaat binnenkort naar een groter bed dus kunnen we zijn bedje gebruiken. We hebben nog 2 'lege' kamers in huis dus plek is er. Kinderwagen van oudste staat eventueel nog klaar. Auto kunnen we met 7 man in als het moet.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Nu zit er tussen de oudste en jongste 3.5 jaar en dat vind ik zelf net teveel. Kortom ik ben er stiekem al een tijdslimiet aan het vastzetten (dat is heel slecht om zwanger te raken ik weet het ?).</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Mijn vriend is gek van kinderen ook al kan die heel strikt zijn. Hij heeft geen vol mondige ja uitgesproken maar hij zou het wel willen. Mijn moeder is momenteel onze oppas voor meestal 2 daagjes in de week (de oudste gaat al naar school dus die heeft ze dan niet). Mijn moeder heeft wel gezegd nu is het klaar ik ga er niet op nog meer oppassen. Dus hier zal dan wel iets veranderen. Tevens twijfel ik of ik zal moeten stoppen met werken of dat we het gewoon doorzetten hoe het nu gaat (Ik werk +/- 16 uur per week). Al gedacht om eventueel terug te gaan naar 8 uur zodat ik 1/1,5 dag weg ben.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">We gaan er wel vanuit dat als er 1 bij komt wel ons zullen moeten opzij zetten. Zo gingen we altijd heel graag naar festivals, concerten, filmpjes en vakantie.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Maar niemand kan ik de toekomst kijken dus een beslissing maken over wat er allemaal gaat gebeuren is lastig.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">Wie o wie zit er in dezelfde situatie of heeft dit gehad? Wie heeft er 4 kindjes en trekt me even over de streep ?.</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; transition-delay: 0s, 0s, 0s; transition-duration: 0.2s, 0.2s, 0.2s; transition-property: width, height, margin; transition-timing-function: ease, ease, ease; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;" /><span style="display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #090909; font-family: Helvetica Neue,Helvetica,Arial,Lucida Grande,sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">(Als mensen hier me kennen door me verhaal hou a.u.b alles voor je)</span><u></u><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"></span></p>
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Overleg met elkaar wat jullie het liefst willen wat haalbaar is en hoe het in de toekomst zou zijn. Wat anderen er van vinden doet er niet toe want het is jullie gezin.
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